At some point when you look back in your life, you think you made so many mistakes.
Sometimes it’s about the extra energy you put either physically, emotionally or financially in some relationships which you shouldn’t. Sometimes it’s about the people and company that was more worthy than others but you realized it a little late.
Sometimes it’s about the wrong decisions you made and the tiny regrets associated with them.
Sometimes it’s about the meaningless fear you had somewhere inside which stopped you using your full potential towards your goals.
Sometimes it’s about the time you gave to the people who actually didn’t deserve it.
Interesting thing is that you think that you are the only one who went through this but actually We all go through the same process in our lives, what matters most is that, Did you learn something valuable throughout the journey or not? Did those experiences shape you in any way? Did you become a better version of yourself with time?
Are you able to differentiate between the people who are valuable and important from those who are just there to add negative vibes to your life?
Alhamdullilah I had a great time in my 20s but I don’t want to be that girl again who was very emotional, immature, a bit judgemental & a “Say Yes” person for everyone’s call. I like the present version of mine who learnt a lot from a long way, sometimes able to say “No”, try not to judge the people, able to choose the company that makes her happy, learnt that Time is the most precious thing you can ever give to and get from someone.
And above all no matter how much you regret and curse yourself about the things you wish you didn’t do or you should’ve done “You don’t have full control”.There is someone who wanted you to went through the different ways and hardships of life because he wanted to teach you and shape you. He wanted to transform and polished you to became a better person. He entitled you to give, so you gave, He wanted you to get so you got and when you give whether it is respect, money, energy or time, it’s not like you will get it back from the same person. Your lord poured his blessings upon you in thousand other ways which you don’t think of, Sometimes in a form of respect from others, your happiness, your success & achievements, Love & care from your family and Sometimes in a form of long-lasting memories you made with your loved ones which brights your way the whole life.
So Look forward instead of focusing back, keep your hopes high and feel good about yourself if you think that you are not getting older but getting better.
Sometimes it’s about the extra energy you put either physically, emotionally or financially in some relationships which you shouldn’t. Sometimes it’s about the people and company that was more worthy than others but you realized it a little late.
Sometimes it’s about the wrong decisions you made and the tiny regrets associated with them.
Sometimes it’s about the meaningless fear you had somewhere inside which stopped you using your full potential towards your goals.
Sometimes it’s about the time you gave to the people who actually didn’t deserve it.
Interesting thing is that you think that you are the only one who went through this but actually We all go through the same process in our lives, what matters most is that, Did you learn something valuable throughout the journey or not? Did those experiences shape you in any way? Did you become a better version of yourself with time?
Are you able to differentiate between the people who are valuable and important from those who are just there to add negative vibes to your life?
Alhamdullilah I had a great time in my 20s but I don’t want to be that girl again who was very emotional, immature, a bit judgemental & a “Say Yes” person for everyone’s call. I like the present version of mine who learnt a lot from a long way, sometimes able to say “No”, try not to judge the people, able to choose the company that makes her happy, learnt that Time is the most precious thing you can ever give to and get from someone.
And above all no matter how much you regret and curse yourself about the things you wish you didn’t do or you should’ve done “You don’t have full control”.There is someone who wanted you to went through the different ways and hardships of life because he wanted to teach you and shape you. He wanted to transform and polished you to became a better person. He entitled you to give, so you gave, He wanted you to get so you got and when you give whether it is respect, money, energy or time, it’s not like you will get it back from the same person. Your lord poured his blessings upon you in thousand other ways which you don’t think of, Sometimes in a form of respect from others, your happiness, your success & achievements, Love & care from your family and Sometimes in a form of long-lasting memories you made with your loved ones which brights your way the whole life.
So Look forward instead of focusing back, keep your hopes high and feel good about yourself if you think that you are not getting older but getting better.
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