The Silent Treatment Is an Enemy of Marriage and Relationships
Tujhey Kis Baat Ka Gham Hai Woh Itna Pooch Len Mujh Sey
Woh Itna Pooch Len Mujh Sey To Pair Kis Baat Ka Gham Hai! (Mairaj Gawalyari)
(He should just inquire, what causes me this pain
were he to ask this question, no ache would then remain)
Here I am again for all the new and seasoned couples!
We all have arguments and disagreements, but the worst way to deal with them is through silent treatment. Here’s what it does to us:
💣We think we are hurting the other person, but in reality, we are isolating and hurting ourselves.
💣It makes things worse; instead of resolving the issue, it creates chaos.
💣We assume things that didn’t happen and wouldn’t happen, causing unnecessary stress.
💣It greatly affects our physical and mental health, as well as our daily routines and productivity.
💣The partner who is more sensitive and expressive often suffers the most—typically, this is the woman—while the other partner may not know how to express their feelings and can eat and sleep well despite the situation.
What to Do?
✔️First and foremost, set aside your ego and talk.
✔️Don’t shout or use harsh words; instead, express your concerns. (If you don’t know how, take the time to learn.)
✔️Ask yourself whether the issue and your ego are more important than your relationship. If the answer is your relationship, then nothing else matters.
✔️This one is especially for women: God created women to be more sensitive and expressive, while men often don’t know what to notice, what to say, how to appreciate, or how to communicate their feelings. If you expect him to understand what you’re thinking or to think the way you do, it may never happen, and your silent treatment will only make it worse.
✔️For men: She doesn’t know what’s inside you until you express it. Your silent treatment not only harms your relationship but also affects her happiness and peace. Remember “Happy Wife Happy Life”, Believe me, if you share your feelings, even the biggest problems can become manageable, and she will be your greatest support. So please, share!
Main Chup Raha Tou Aur Ghalat Fehmian Barheen
Woh Bhi Suna hai Us Ney Jo Main Ney Kaha Nahee (Bashir Badr)
What do you think?
Quratul Ain Saba